<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357</id><updated>2011-11-11T21:34:01.816-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Clare's blog</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>164</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-8918528156426536181</id><published>2008-06-26T11:42:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-27T15:43:56.122-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Neither a borrower nor a lender</title><summary type='text'>I hate teaching fiscal responsibility, but it's something you have to do. I know too many people who get into trouble long into adulthood from poor saving and spending practices. My teenager didn't work over the winter. After his job ended in the fall, he survived about three minutes on what he "saved" from the summer, then failed to get another job to pay for "extras" throughout the winter. That</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/8918528156426536181/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=8918528156426536181' title='36 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/8918528156426536181'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/8918528156426536181'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2008/06/neither-borrower-nor-lender.html' title='Neither a borrower nor a lender'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>36</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-1818645786178358644</id><published>2007-02-26T16:35:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-26T16:36:10.254-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Goodbye, from here</title><summary type='text'>I'm going to have to go buy a lottery ticket tonight. Nothing that'll make me wealthy, but I'm going to play 165, straight. Heck, maybe I'll box it and spend a whole dollar.This is my 165th, and last, blog on the Opinion Page. I'm moving. Not far, but away from this page. I'll be blogging on our new Web site, www.jerseyshoremoms.com - best blog title I could come up with was Mom in Motion. The </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/1818645786178358644/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=1818645786178358644' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/1818645786178358644'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/1818645786178358644'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/goodbye-from-here_26.html' title='Goodbye, from here'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-5158770706453301963</id><published>2007-02-22T10:59:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-22T13:48:35.076-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A lesson in courage</title><summary type='text'>Reading over the words of Kathleen Weinstein, abducted and killed almost 11 years ago, I'm in awe of her. In what had to be the most terrifying time in her life, she held it together, and she got great identifiable evidence against her killer while secretly tape-recording their time alone in her car after he carjacked her and before he smothered her to death in the woods.She managed to get </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/5158770706453301963/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=5158770706453301963' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/5158770706453301963'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/5158770706453301963'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/lesson-in-courage.html' title='A lesson in courage'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-2549794504441346034</id><published>2007-02-19T09:25:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-19T11:10:42.403-05:00</updated><title type='text'>To the person who stole my stuff . . .</title><summary type='text'>Sunday morning, my husband decided to take the kids out for breakfast. We went to church Saturday night, the kids had no Sunday School, so I opted to stay home and finish cleaning the house with no "Mommmmmmm!!!!" interruptions. Why he decided to take my car, I don't know. But tucked into our carport on a cold Sunday morning, it was probably more inviting. But he's not used to my car. As the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/2549794504441346034/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=2549794504441346034' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/2549794504441346034'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/2549794504441346034'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/to-person-who-stole-my-stuff.html' title='To the person who stole my stuff . . .'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-7968190628417998156</id><published>2007-02-16T10:19:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-16T11:04:26.604-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Catchy commercials or annoying ads?</title><summary type='text'>While I was watching the Super Bowl, the Geico ad with the cavemen came on. Since commercials were a hot topic that day, we all launched in on our opinion of that campaign. I think it's a riot. I can't believe they've been able to carry this theme so long. As soon as the commercial came on, my friend Mary started laughing too, saying she was surprised they've kept it going, but that she gets a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/7968190628417998156/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=7968190628417998156' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/7968190628417998156'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/7968190628417998156'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/catchy-commercials-or-annoying-ads.html' title='Catchy commercials or annoying ads?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-2085830236007087183</id><published>2007-02-14T16:15:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-15T10:22:41.810-05:00</updated><title type='text'>In the eyes of the beholder</title><summary type='text'>I didn't have it too badly Wednesday morning with the weather. School was canceled for my high-schooler, and my younger ones had a delayed opening that delayed my arrival to work. By the time I got them all settled, the roads were pretty clear.Looking across Route 66 from the newsroom, I remarked to several people how beautiful the view was. The trees were encased in ice, glowing against the dark</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/2085830236007087183/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=2085830236007087183' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/2085830236007087183'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/2085830236007087183'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/in-eyes-of-beholder.html' title='In the eyes of the beholder'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-8296421339803909107</id><published>2007-02-13T10:35:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-13T10:46:46.450-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Does NJ even HAVE a slogan now?</title><summary type='text'>New York is looking to upgrade its "I Love New York" ad campaign. Officials are seeking marketers to help them take advantage of new media, such as text messaging and podcasts. I can see podcasts, but text messaging?I wonder if the governor has the "I Love New York" jingle as his cell phone ring tone.I remember the first few years of that campaign - it started in 1977 - with all kinds of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/8296421339803909107/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=8296421339803909107' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/8296421339803909107'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/8296421339803909107'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/does-nj-even-have-slogan-now.html' title='Does NJ even HAVE a slogan now?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-8844074390676921269</id><published>2007-02-09T15:07:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-09T16:11:23.415-05:00</updated><title type='text'>How much can you dig up for a grand?</title><summary type='text'>My newsroom colleague Gretchen Van Benthuysen posed this question: How come it costs $1,000 to run a background check on a Republican, but background checks on volunteers at schools cost $85?She's got a good point. On today's page 3, we read that the Assembly is looking into requiring criminal background checks on volunteers who work for schools and other facilities that serve children. The </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/8844074390676921269/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=8844074390676921269' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/8844074390676921269'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/8844074390676921269'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/how-much-can-you-dig-up-for-grand.html' title='How much can you dig up for a grand?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-2557159847970024373</id><published>2007-02-08T10:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-08T13:01:02.063-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Rename the restaurant</title><summary type='text'>OK ... first off, I made up this sign from a Web site. It's not real!But the Trinity Restaurant planned in Keyport is, and to me, it's tacky and disrespectful. Am I overly sensitive? The use of the word "Trinity" at a church should refer to the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, not a steak and ale joint.  Charles Merla's looking for a liquor license for the restaurant that he's renovating from a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/2557159847970024373/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=2557159847970024373' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/2557159847970024373'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/2557159847970024373'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/rename-restaurant.html' title='Rename the restaurant'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp0.blogger.com/_xr3G1eFqwyc/RctF5xYEJ6I/AAAAAAAAAAY/dSVSRn5iN8A/s72-c/merlachurch.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-1410985105682196166</id><published>2007-02-07T15:28:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-07T17:34:33.905-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Lost in space</title><summary type='text'>Hell hath no fury and all that, but to hear of an astronaut who drove 900 miles, apparently to bump off a rival is bizarre. The pictures to the left show Lisa Nowak, a 43-year-old astronaut ... first is her in a March 2005 NASA portrait, the next one is after she was arrested a few days ago in Florida, where she was charged with the attempted murder of a woman she believed was romantically </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/1410985105682196166/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=1410985105682196166' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/1410985105682196166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/1410985105682196166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/lost-in-space.html' title='Lost in space'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp2.blogger.com/_xr3G1eFqwyc/Rco3t7ALldI/AAAAAAAAAAM/gmKANIxKVNE/s72-c/astronaut.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-117079813986381833</id><published>2007-02-06T16:29:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-06T17:23:45.446-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Why bother with a primary?</title><summary type='text'>Good for Monmouth County Freeholder Anna Little for coming out against the Republican Party's new "screening process." First, it wants candidates to pay $1,000 for a "recommended but voluntary" background check, which party chair Adam Puharic said they should consider "vulnerability assessments on themselves," digging out information such as past criminal histories, divorces and bankruptcies. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/117079813986381833/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=117079813986381833' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117079813986381833'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117079813986381833'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/why-bother-with-primary.html' title='Why bother with a primary?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-117070633698247209</id><published>2007-02-05T14:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-02-05T15:52:42.646-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Straps and strep</title><summary type='text'>Timing can be everything. I'm a big seatbelt proponent and a lecturer to anyone who gets in and doesn't buckle up. I have been since I was a teen and got banged up in an accident, long before seat belts were required. I started buckling up before the state told us we had to. My kids follow the rules as they've been added - car seats, then booster seats, then seat belts after they're 8 or 80 </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/117070633698247209/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=117070633698247209' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117070633698247209'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117070633698247209'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/02/straps-and-strep.html' title='Straps and strep'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-117027554131467761</id><published>2007-01-31T15:17:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-31T23:12:21.490-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A "Sixth Sense" in personnel department heads</title><summary type='text'>Remember the kid from "The Sixth Sense" who whispered "I see dead people" to his shrink, portrayed by Bruce Willis? Apparently, the personnel directors from the Newark and Camden city school districts have that ability too. Camden spent more than $330,000 on salaries to late - we're not talking tardy - employees, some of whom were dead up to 30 years before their termination dates. Didn't anybody</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/117027554131467761/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=117027554131467761' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117027554131467761'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117027554131467761'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/sixth-sense-in-personnel-department.html' title='A &quot;Sixth Sense&quot; in personnel department heads'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-117018298366351371</id><published>2007-01-30T13:38:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-30T16:38:28.796-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Jury duty-lite</title><summary type='text'>A recent news article on new questions that will be asked of those called for jury duty made me remember my duties past. Plenty of people I know have never been called. I have - four times. The first three times, I had to report for at least most of the week, usually getting released Thursday night. Heck, the first time I went - many, many years ago before I gave up cigarettes - there was a "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/117018298366351371/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=117018298366351371' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117018298366351371'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117018298366351371'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/jury-duty-lite.html' title='Jury duty-lite'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-117008865563805570</id><published>2007-01-29T11:37:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-29T14:56:59.053-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Should there be an age limit for mothers?</title><summary type='text'>Everyone has to agree that this woman might just have gone a little too far: A woman from Spain gave birth to twins last month at age 67. That raises an eyebrow, but, hey, people live longer and are healthier, so that doesn't really concern people too much. And there are plenty of dads who are well into their 70s with newborns. Why shouldn't women be able to start families later too?Then you hear</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/117008865563805570/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=117008865563805570' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117008865563805570'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/117008865563805570'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/should-there-be-age-limit-for-mothers.html' title='Should there be an age limit for mothers?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116974215755658012</id><published>2007-01-25T11:08:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-25T12:05:24.536-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Therapy for being a bone-head?</title><summary type='text'>What do you make of this? It's big news today that Isaiah Washington of TV's "Grey's Anatomy" is entering counseling because he used the word "faggot." Now unless you're talking about a cigarette, that word is entirely unacceptable. But therapy? Lots of people say stupid things once in a while or have an intended joke really tank and come off as insensitive. Do you have to go through counseling </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116974215755658012/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116974215755658012' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116974215755658012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116974215755658012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/therapy-for-being-bone-head.html' title='Therapy for being a bone-head?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116957940914459083</id><published>2007-01-23T14:05:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-23T17:32:04.556-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A grandfather clause for corruption?</title><summary type='text'>The state Senate Monday finally passed a bill that would make public employees and officials who committed a job-related crime forfeit their pension. But the penalties would only apply to crimes committed AFTER the bill becomes law. Of course! So now those former public officials -- think Operation Bid Rig and the like -- who are heading off to state prison after taking thousands of dollars in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116957940914459083/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116957940914459083' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116957940914459083'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116957940914459083'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/grandfather-clause-for-corruption.html' title='A grandfather clause for corruption?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116922625941739967</id><published>2007-01-19T12:01:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-19T13:22:00.273-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Who could portray the McGreeveys?</title><summary type='text'>Pretty inactive blog this week ... sorry, a nasty cold really slowed me down ... something's gotta give! I'm much better now, and I have some inspiration from, of all things, a McGreevey.I see that Dina Matos McGreevey is writing her version of Life with Jim. I can't blame her. She said there's been so much speculation about her married life, and "Enough is enough." What I'd like to know is why </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116922625941739967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116922625941739967' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116922625941739967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116922625941739967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/who-could-portray-mcgreeveys.html' title='Who could portray the McGreeveys?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116897500323521482</id><published>2007-01-16T13:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-16T18:13:52.563-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Rough month for beauty queens</title><summary type='text'>The tiaras are falling rapidly. In the last month or so, three beauty pageant winners lost, or came close to losing, their titles. I keep remembering, from the years I watched, the line read for the runner-up for Miss America, "If, for any reason, the winner is unable to fulfill her duties ... " or something along those lines. Nobody cared. She wasn't going down in history. Who would've thunk it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116897500323521482/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116897500323521482' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116897500323521482'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116897500323521482'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/rough-month-for-beauty-queens.html' title='Rough month for beauty queens'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116889881156387029</id><published>2007-01-15T17:06:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-15T17:31:56.780-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Reality more fascinating, and heart-wrenching</title><summary type='text'>I love the "Law and Order" type of shows ... I don't follow any of them regularly, but I watch CSI, Cold Case Files, etc., whenever I can. This Saturday, I was riveted to CNN, watching the news of the two rescued Missouri boys -- one a little over a week after he was abducted, the second more than four years after he was kidnapped. It was heard to tear myself away - hearing the older boy's </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116889881156387029/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116889881156387029' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116889881156387029'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116889881156387029'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/reality-more-fascinating-and-heart.html' title='Reality more fascinating, and heart-wrenching'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116854097427901865</id><published>2007-01-11T13:42:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-11T16:15:49.546-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Driving lessons on life</title><summary type='text'>It's so hard reading about the three teens killed in Freehold yesterday. I couldn't help tearing up several times, thinking of those families, those kids. Our oldest child can get his permit this year. My husband and I were going to teach him ourselves. Now, I'm rethinking just having us teach him. One of the people who posted a response in our online forum wrote of signing up his or her teen for</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116854097427901865/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116854097427901865' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116854097427901865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116854097427901865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/driving-lessons-on-life.html' title='Driving lessons on life'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116845357101680207</id><published>2007-01-10T13:10:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-10T16:19:36.986-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Gov. Corzine, a stand-up kind of guy?</title><summary type='text'>I've heard comments on both sides of whether the one-liners in Gov. Corzine's State of the State speech were appropriate, or funny, for that matter.Me? I appreciate the breaks in what is usually a long, boring speech. I laughed at his comment about having to learn "more about bear contraception than any of you'd like to know." We get lots of letters from both sides on bear and deer hunts. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116845357101680207/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116845357101680207' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116845357101680207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116845357101680207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/gov-corzine-stand-up-kind-of-guy.html' title='Gov. Corzine, a stand-up kind of guy?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116837682311026571</id><published>2007-01-09T15:53:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-09T16:19:14.626-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Advice to Dwek: Home-school</title><summary type='text'>Failed real estate investor Solomon Dwek wants $37,800 released from his seized assets to pay for private school tuition for his four kids. His lawyer said the family "may face irreparable harm should the children's education be interrupted for a period of time."   That's not sitting well with some of his creditors, who have accused Dwek of defrauding them of hundreds of millions of dollars. Why </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116837682311026571/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116837682311026571' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116837682311026571'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116837682311026571'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/advice-to-dwek-home-school.html' title='Advice to Dwek: Home-school'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116827888839935089</id><published>2007-01-08T12:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-08T13:38:53.236-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Good doesn't balance out the bad</title><summary type='text'>In today's online update on former, longtime Brick Mayor Joe Scarpelli, his lawyer immediately does the "but look at all the good he did" dance. I'm sick of hearing that every time a public figure winds up being convicted of or, as Scarpelli did, pleads guilty to corruption.Scarpelli pleaded guilty to accepting $5,000 in bribes from a developer between 1998 and 2003, and for taking a $500 cash </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116827888839935089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116827888839935089' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116827888839935089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116827888839935089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/good-doesnt-balance-out-bad.html' title='Good doesn&apos;t balance out the bad'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116793739854145207</id><published>2007-01-04T13:48:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-04T17:00:47.223-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It's a bird! It's a plane! It's a ... lump of something!</title><summary type='text'> Any good theories out there on what this lump 'o junk might be? E.T.'s tennis ball? It's 2 1/4 by 1 1/4 inches, about 13 ounces, and described as a silver-gray, lumpy but smooth, rocklike object with a metallic sheen.After blowing a hole in the roof of a Freehold Township home and into a second-floor bathroom, it bounced off the tile floor and became embedded in a wall. Ouch!Sounds like it might</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116793739854145207/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116793739854145207' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116793739854145207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116793739854145207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/its-bird-its-plane-its-lump-of.html' title='It&apos;s a bird! It&apos;s a plane! It&apos;s a ... lump of something!'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116785462569588782</id><published>2007-01-03T14:43:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-03T15:46:07.783-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Mopping in the New Year</title><summary type='text'>I remember when Prince's "1999" album came out in the 80s, the age I would be at the start of the new century seemed so old and so far away. Another in a long line of "If you told me I'd do this someday, I would never have believed it" events that hit since I turned, well, not a spring chicken anymore: I was mopping my kitchen floor when the clock struck midnight on New Year's Eve.   My husband </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116785462569588782/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116785462569588782' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116785462569588782'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116785462569588782'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/mopping-in-new-year.html' title='Mopping in the New Year'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116776409657424021</id><published>2007-01-02T13:37:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-02T14:39:01.503-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A case a lawyer won't even take on. I hope.</title><summary type='text'>I didn't think I'd ever see it, but it looks like there's a case that no self-respecting lawyer would take on. A litigant is representing himself, and I'm taking it on faith that he must've contacted some attorneys to try and get help. George Allen Ward, a crack dealer in jail in Virginia serving a 200-month sentence, is suing Arm &amp; Hammer and its parent company for $425 million. His complaint? </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116776409657424021/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116776409657424021' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116776409657424021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116776409657424021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2007/01/case-lawyer-wont-even-take-on-i-hope.html' title='A case a lawyer won&apos;t even take on. I hope.'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116734752510954589</id><published>2006-12-28T18:06:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-29T16:22:58.630-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Couldn't Kolluri come up with a quick trip?</title><summary type='text'>Not to take away from Transportation Commissioner Kris Kolluri's "Day as a Governor," but wouldn't it have been fun -- well, except for the state Legislature -- if he decided to take a quick out-of-state trip this week?On Thursday, the governor, the Senate president, the Assembly speaker and the attorney general were all out of town, giving Kolluri his 24 hours as New Jersey governor. (Wonder if </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116734752510954589/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116734752510954589' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116734752510954589'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116734752510954589'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/couldnt-kolluri-come-up-with-quick.html' title='Couldn&apos;t Kolluri come up with a quick trip?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116724638592658505</id><published>2006-12-27T13:47:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-28T09:15:40.806-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Should I stay or should I go now?</title><summary type='text'>Recent shootings in Long Branch, Neptune and Asbury Park has prompted discussions about guns, drugs and gangs, none of which end at the borders of those municipalities. I've been involved in a few conversations about what effect this has, particularly in Asbury's case, on businesses and real estate redevelopment. Are people nervous about going into Asbury? My husband and I went to the Market in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116724638592658505/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116724638592658505' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116724638592658505'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116724638592658505'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-now.html' title='Should I stay or should I go now?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116715881384550717</id><published>2006-12-26T13:29:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-26T13:54:17.793-05:00</updated><title type='text'>There it goes, Miss America's former home</title><summary type='text'>State Sen. William L. Gormley, R-Atlantic, wants to gut Atlantic City's Boardwalk Hall to house a $3 billion retail mall and hotel casino. The aim is to lure mogul Steve Wynn back to New Jersey.Gormley says he wants to see the facade of the historic building retained, then use its shell to house a mall similar to Union Station in Washington, then attach a casino hotel. I honestly don't know ... </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116715881384550717/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116715881384550717' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116715881384550717'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116715881384550717'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/there-it-goes-miss-americas-former.html' title='There it goes, Miss America&apos;s former home'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116682515180513842</id><published>2006-12-22T16:56:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-22T17:10:14.856-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Who needs a weapon when you've got a purse?</title><summary type='text'>There's a news brief in today's paper that describes three women who bagged a fleeing fugitive. Literally. Seems a man wanted for possession of a weapon and assault on police officers was being chased across a bridge in England when three women, armed only with their purses, cornered him, smacked him around, then forced him into the arms of a nearby van driver who held him until police arrived. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116682515180513842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116682515180513842' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116682515180513842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116682515180513842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/who-needs-weapon-when-youve-got-purse.html' title='Who needs a weapon when you&apos;ve got a purse?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116674121823204259</id><published>2006-12-21T17:30:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-21T23:40:26.576-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A 100-year-old lecture on nagging</title><summary type='text'>I've had the pleasure of going through our archives -- I blogged about some great stuff I found on the Sea Bright-Highlands bridge last week. But the headline on the women's advice column from Feb. 4, 1907, really caught my eye: "Managing a Man; Good Advice About Nagging, Even Though it Be Hard to Follow."It opens: "The best time not to nag a man is when he's down -- when he's suffering from the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116674121823204259/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116674121823204259' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116674121823204259'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116674121823204259'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/100-year-old-lecture-on-nagging.html' title='A 100-year-old lecture on nagging'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116663725415677218</id><published>2006-12-20T12:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-20T13:17:44.193-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Label me techno-inept</title><summary type='text'>I took a few days off to get ready for the holidays. One of my goals was to get all my holiday cards out. Our old computer had a printing program that I typed our whole address book into. All I had to do was call up the list and hit print. Ta-da! Envelopes labeled and stamped in no time at all. I loved it, and with all there is to do at the holidays, not having to write out 50 or so envelopes is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116663725415677218/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116663725415677218' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116663725415677218'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116663725415677218'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/label-me-techno-inept_20.html' title='Label me techno-inept'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116621951285249166</id><published>2006-12-15T16:49:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-15T18:56:12.846-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Serious use for a silly product</title><summary type='text'>How innovative are U.S. soldiers? They came up with the idea of using Silly String to protect themselves from bombs. They squirt the goop across a room before searching it. It solidifies into the stringlike stuff in the air. If the stuff remains suspended, it shows them where a nearly invisible trip wire is. How cool is that?A Camden County mother heard about it from her son, and she's been </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116621951285249166/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116621951285249166' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116621951285249166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116621951285249166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/serious-use-for-silly-product.html' title='Serious use for a silly product'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116613139070770107</id><published>2006-12-14T15:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-15T13:48:40.666-05:00</updated><title type='text'>De-fenceless against terrorists</title><summary type='text'>If terrorists decided they wanted to do something evil with the 90-ton chemical tankers on the side of the Turnpike, do you think they'd turn around and give up when they saw there was a fence? The New Jersey Turnpike Authority does. It voted to spend $6 million to put up a 10-foot fence between Linden and Newark.   Pretty lucrative for the fence guy, I'm sure. A fence, for crying out loud. And </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116613139070770107/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116613139070770107' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116613139070770107'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116613139070770107'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/de-fenceless-against-terrorists.html' title='De-fenceless against terrorists'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116604731922514762</id><published>2006-12-13T16:19:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-13T17:32:33.413-05:00</updated><title type='text'>An old twist to a new story</title><summary type='text'>We've been running stories about proposed plans to replace the bridge between Highlands and Sea Bright -- both towns withdrew support for the project earlier this month, preferring repair and renovation over a new span nearly twice as high that would obstruct views. They also appear to be fond of the current bridge, which, as one resident put it, is "part of the fabric of our community, and we </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116604731922514762/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116604731922514762' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116604731922514762'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116604731922514762'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/old-twist-to-new-story.html' title='An old twist to a new story'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116594338813013974</id><published>2006-12-12T11:48:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-12T13:19:36.660-05:00</updated><title type='text'>C'mon, it's a history lesson</title><summary type='text'>I hope the Neptune Township Committee doesn't waste more time in its discussion of whether the township is allowed to provide funding toward the Black History Month celebration because its theme is "African-American Contributions to Praise and Worship." It seems a committeewoman was concerned that allowing public money to fund anything with "worship" in the title would be stepping over the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116594338813013974/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116594338813013974' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116594338813013974'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116594338813013974'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/cmon-its-history-lesson.html' title='C&apos;mon, it&apos;s a history lesson'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116585322638716286</id><published>2006-12-11T10:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-11T14:31:15.716-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Code word: expensive</title><summary type='text'>When I bought my car in 2000, it came with a new security device: a coded key. Sounds great, but if you lose it, it'll cost ya. A return to the dealer for a new key will run you about $100. A locksmith can get you one for a little less than half that. Then you have to go to your auto manual to learn how to program it. But you usually need two already-programmed keys to program the third, or at </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116585322638716286/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116585322638716286' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116585322638716286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116585322638716286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/code-word-expensive.html' title='Code word: expensive'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116551882199943586</id><published>2006-12-07T13:54:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-07T16:04:03.623-05:00</updated><title type='text'>When do you turn to authorities for help with kids?</title><summary type='text'>I was talking with a group of moms about a news brief that appeared in our paper  Wednesday regarding a South Carolina mother who had sicced the police on her 12-year-old for nosing through his great-grandmother's house, finding his Christmas present (a Game Boy) and playing with it. A little extreme, we thought.There's more to the story. The family has had a lot of problems - the boy has stolen </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116551882199943586/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116551882199943586' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116551882199943586'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116551882199943586'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/when-do-you-turn-to-authorities-for.html' title='When do you turn to authorities for help with kids?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116533304458126529</id><published>2006-12-05T10:36:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-05T14:47:25.336-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Giants and Pirates</title><summary type='text'>Thank goodness for Seton Hall b-ball. The Pirates are taking the sting out of the last few Giants losses. I don't watch a lot of sports, but I make it a point to follow those two teams. The Giants were riding high until a few weeks ago. I wore a Giants shirt last weekend during the stunning 4th quarter loss, and refused to wear it this weekend, figuring it was unlucky. I guess that wasn't the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116533304458126529/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116533304458126529' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116533304458126529'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116533304458126529'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/giants-and-pirates.html' title='Giants and Pirates'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116526498039631494</id><published>2006-12-04T15:42:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-04T16:56:57.350-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Bridge commission over troubled waters</title><summary type='text'>A longtime spokesman and lobbyist for the Burlington County Bridge Commission, Robert Stears, admitted Friday that he billed the commission hundreds of thousands of dollars for work not performed, and he pleaded guilty to income tax evasion for not reporting that money.First, I have to ask: Why does a Bridge Commission - responsible for two bridges - need a spokesman and a lobbyist? Why does the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116526498039631494/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116526498039631494' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116526498039631494'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116526498039631494'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/bridge-commission-over-troubled-waters.html' title='Bridge commission over troubled waters'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116500133773380981</id><published>2006-12-01T14:09:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-12-01T14:33:53.500-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Maybe I should shoot for St. Patrick's Day cards</title><summary type='text'>I have to figure out when I can buckle down and do the family Christmas cards. Each year, we send out about 50 or so cards to family and friends. We do the photo cards with a picture of our kids. Nothing formal, just a photo I take when I can get all four of them together and looking in the same direction. I've decided that "Wait, look over here and smile!" shots turn out better than the ones </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116500133773380981/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116500133773380981' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116500133773380981'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116500133773380981'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/12/maybe-i-should-shoot-for-st-patricks.html' title='Maybe I should shoot for St. Patrick&apos;s Day cards'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116483451432025037</id><published>2006-11-29T15:59:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-30T09:33:51.476-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Can't see the forest for the typos</title><summary type='text'>Poor Brendan Byrne. First the arena bearing his name was changed, with the naming rights sold to Continental Airlines. Then he gets a forest named after him. A forest! That's much cooler than an arena. When then-Gov. McGreevey renamed the Lebanon State Forest as "Brendan T. Byrne State Forest" in 2002, it prompted Byrne to joke, "it's nice to be immortal again." But the new AAA road maps for New </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116483451432025037/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116483451432025037' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116483451432025037'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116483451432025037'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/cant-see-forest-for-typos.html' title='Can&apos;t see the forest for the typos'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116464607719790125</id><published>2006-11-27T11:32:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-28T10:43:04.790-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Put the portrait in the trash</title><summary type='text'>How absolutely sickening. Jim McGreevey's "people" tried to get his portrait-hanging ceremony to coincide with his book release tour. Gov. Corzine's people told him no. McGreevey's people tried again, Corzine's staff stuck to their guns and said no ceremony until the book tour is done. Good for them. McGreevey's such a slug! I could care less about his love life. But considering the lousy job he </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116464607719790125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116464607719790125' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116464607719790125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116464607719790125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/put-portrait-in-trash.html' title='Put the portrait in the trash'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116438625465799014</id><published>2006-11-24T11:04:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-24T12:21:31.336-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Scams and spams</title><summary type='text'>Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. I'm looking forward to my favorite leftover: a turkey, stuffing, cranberry and mayo sandwich. MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM-mmmmmmmmm.But back at work today, I started going through the editorial page e-mails and got to wondering: How did we get on some of these lists?We get the spam-scams, usually addressed to "My Beloved" or "Dearest One": Someone from some European </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116438625465799014/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116438625465799014' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116438625465799014'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116438625465799014'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/scams-and-spams.html' title='Scams and spams'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116414970428337588</id><published>2006-11-21T17:44:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-22T11:11:10.123-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Going, in style, in Times Square</title><summary type='text'>I was thinking of taking my daughters to see a Broadway show as their Christmas gift. For my hurtin' wallet, that means an early ride to the Tickets booth opposite Times Square to purchase seats for that day's shows at half price. Too bad it won't be until after the New Year. I'll miss the potty party.The new public restroom area set up in Times Square is apparently something to experience, so to</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116414970428337588/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116414970428337588' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116414970428337588'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116414970428337588'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/going-in-style-in-times-square.html' title='Going, in style, in Times Square'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116404730475356288</id><published>2006-11-20T13:28:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-20T14:00:45.786-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Coverage mauled by TomKat</title><summary type='text'>OK, I know people are thrilled with peeking into the lives of celebrities, but during my week off, it seemed every channel was overly devoted to covering the wedding of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.Honestly, I couldn't care less. But while I was housecleaning, and housecleaning, and housecleaning (and it will all be a shambles again by the end of this week), I opted to have the TV playing in the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116404730475356288/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116404730475356288' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116404730475356288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116404730475356288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/coverage-mauled-by-tomkat.html' title='Coverage mauled by TomKat'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116318628791793770</id><published>2006-11-10T13:49:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-10T14:34:19.840-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Watch your language - at least around kids</title><summary type='text'>My last blog before my vacation next week was inspired by my teenager, and by Margaret, a regular Press blog contributor. In a comment on my posting on cell phone use, Margaret told about hearing a woman's screaming, expletive-laden cell phone conversation, then later learned that same woman had been hired to work at a local school.    That got me thinking about dicey language used in front of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116318628791793770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116318628791793770' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116318628791793770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116318628791793770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/watch-your-language-at-least-around.html' title='Watch your language - at least around kids'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116308873435915410</id><published>2006-11-09T10:43:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-09T12:09:06.893-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Distracted by potty mouths</title><summary type='text'>OK, I blogged on this once before, but I have to plead once again: Public bathrooms are not appropriate places for cell phone conversations!A friend once walked into a ladies' room behind me, chatting away on the phone, and I quickly asked everyone in the stalls to start flushing their toilets so she'd get the hint that her conversation should have ended outside the door. She laughed and hung </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116308873435915410/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116308873435915410' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116308873435915410'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116308873435915410'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/distracted-by-potty-mouths.html' title='Distracted by potty mouths'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116301408940949501</id><published>2006-11-08T14:21:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-08T15:42:40.336-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Public questions: Do we ever say no?</title><summary type='text'>Do people actually take the time to really analyze the public questions on ballots? Or are we so caught up in the personalities of the candidates that we pay little or no attention to the questions?I brought the topic up with a group of friends over the weekend. (Yup, the life of the party, that's me) and some didn't know what the state and county questions were. OK, I'm in a job where I'm </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116301408940949501/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116301408940949501' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116301408940949501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116301408940949501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/public-questions-do-we-ever-say-no.html' title='Public questions: Do we ever say no?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116292985327358469</id><published>2006-11-07T14:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-07T16:27:53.540-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Stalked by Joe Piscopo?</title><summary type='text'>Last week, I activated my voice mail service that will send me an e-mail when I get a message on my machine at home. I'm deactivating it. At least until tomorrow. The last few days I've received several - today's highlights were calls from Bill Clinton and Joe Piscopo. "Hi! It's me, Joe Piscopo. Yes it's me, Joe Piscopo." Oooooookay. I didn't doubt him the first time. Then he went into his </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116292985327358469/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116292985327358469' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116292985327358469'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116292985327358469'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/stalked-by-joe-piscopo.html' title='Stalked by Joe Piscopo?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116283822556429037</id><published>2006-11-06T13:36:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-06T14:14:52.726-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Take time to stop and smell the pizza</title><summary type='text'>I had another incredibly busy weekend. The McDowells were on the run - we even square-danced with our friends the Muras, who put on a terrific audience participation show at their church Saturday night. The kids had a blast.But now I need a quiet Monday. I can't wait until I get home. I'm not cooking. I'm not cleaning. I'm not doing anything but order pizza and gather the kids to either rent a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116283822556429037/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116283822556429037' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116283822556429037'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116283822556429037'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/take-time-to-stop-and-smell-pizza.html' title='Take time to stop and smell the pizza'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116258286621339369</id><published>2006-11-03T14:14:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-03T16:10:09.600-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Shiver me timbers and show me the three-pointers</title><summary type='text'>Pirate season starts today. I'll be consumed until March. My beloved Seton Hall basketball team plays Bloomfield College tonight at Walsh Gym. My husband and I had season tickets several years back, but for two full-time working parents with four kids (and the cost of babysitters when we do go), it was unrealistic. Now, I go when my folks have extra tickets. They have seats with friends, and when</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116258286621339369/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116258286621339369' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116258286621339369'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116258286621339369'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/shiver-me-timbers-and-show-me-three.html' title='Shiver me timbers and show me the three-pointers'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116250690950751990</id><published>2006-11-02T17:19:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-02T17:41:23.976-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The hell with cottage cheese; pass the Merlot</title><summary type='text'>Did you hear about the scientists that fed huge doses of red wine extract to a bunch of obese mice? They found the chunky Mickeys got all the benefits of being thin - living healthier, longer lives - without dieting. That's hilarious.I don't think I'll give up my salads and early-morning jogs just yet.It's far too early to know if this would work in people, scientists said. Why not just loiter at</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116250690950751990/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116250690950751990' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116250690950751990'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116250690950751990'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/hell-with-cottage-cheese-pass-merlot.html' title='The hell with cottage cheese; pass the Merlot'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116241329373212334</id><published>2006-11-01T15:12:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-01T16:27:21.430-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Goodbye, Halloween. Hellooooo, Christmas</title><summary type='text'>I took Halloween off to visit school classroom parties, put final touches on Halloween costumes and do the travel trick-or-treating (to family and friends out of town), the town party and the local trick-or-treating. During a last-minute run to the store to get some red hair spray for my Little Mermaid and some tooth-black-wax for my pirate girl, the Halloween stuff was already on sale and the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116241329373212334/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116241329373212334' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116241329373212334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116241329373212334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/11/goodbye-halloween-hellooooo-christmas.html' title='Goodbye, Halloween. Hellooooo, Christmas'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116223293158961973</id><published>2006-10-30T13:07:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-30T14:11:31.610-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Diner beware</title><summary type='text'>I'm boycotting one of my favorite restaurants - one my family has been going to regularly since it opened a few years back. We're good customers - noisy, but pretty good natured and easy to please. And this is a noisy restaurant, so we don't stick out.About a year or so ago, I thought our bill was high and saw that a tip had already been added in. This was the first time I had seen the restaurant</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116223293158961973/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116223293158961973' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116223293158961973'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116223293158961973'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/diner-beware.html' title='Diner beware'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116196371649383325</id><published>2006-10-27T11:17:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-27T14:03:49.953-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hell hath no fury like a woman with a long memory</title><summary type='text'>Talk about not letting go! An article out of Charlotte, N.C. , tells of a nurse who was charged with murdering a patient in the office where she worked. The motive? She believed the patient had stolen her boyfriend in high school 30 years earlier.And get this: The patient was in there for a facelift! That must've added fuel to the fire, huh? She was also in for fat grafts to her lips and laser </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116196371649383325/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116196371649383325' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116196371649383325'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116196371649383325'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/hell-hath-no-fury-like-woman-with-long.html' title='Hell hath no fury like a woman with a long memory'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116189528860480431</id><published>2006-10-26T16:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-26T17:14:24.233-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Boys will be boys</title><summary type='text'>You've got to love little boys; they keep you on your toes. Take Robert Moore. When he puts his mind to something, there's no stopping him. On Saturday night, the 3-year-old from Wisconsin was shopping with his grandmother when she let him try to win a SpongeBob SquarePants doll out of a vending machine. When he failed to capture it with the crane, his grandmother said she'd win him one.Then she </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116189528860480431/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116189528860480431' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116189528860480431'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116189528860480431'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/boys-will-be-boys.html' title='Boys will be boys'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116178897909559214</id><published>2006-10-25T11:09:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-25T13:37:25.766-04:00</updated><title type='text'>They're supposed to cut more, not spend more!</title><summary type='text'>While some of the state panels studying ways to reduce our property taxes seem to be searching for ways to do nothing, the panel studying school funding is actually doing something. They're looking to spend more money!Those boneheads got it backward. They're supposed to be finding ways to REDUCE taxes. Instead, they want to fix the inequities of school spending by spending more. Middle-income </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116178897909559214/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116178897909559214' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116178897909559214'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116178897909559214'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/theyre-supposed-to-cut-more-not-spend.html' title='They&apos;re supposed to cut more, not spend more!'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116170349244502715</id><published>2006-10-24T11:23:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-24T18:09:39.606-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Maybe it's the parents who need coaches</title><summary type='text'>Are you ready for some football? It's a good day to be a Giants' fan, but that's not what I'm talking about. The defeat of Dallas at Dallas is sweet, but the football story that caught my attention was the brief we had on page 5 Tuesday: "Dad pulls gun on his son's football coach."     A 40-year-old Philadelphia father was upset because his son wasn't getting enough playing time. This was for a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116170349244502715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116170349244502715' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116170349244502715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116170349244502715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/maybe-its-parents-who-need-coaches.html' title='Maybe it&apos;s the parents who need coaches'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116137585996195245</id><published>2006-10-20T16:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-20T18:39:15.746-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A shiver down every parent's spine</title><summary type='text'>An 18-year-old kid's dead, shot in the head in broad daylight on Wednesday morning in Asbury Park, a block away from the Middle School. The county prosecutor's office says kids have easy access to guns, and neighbors say too many young people -- and they're not just talking about gangs -- are too quick to settle disputes with their guns. A few days before Tylik Pugh was shot, two other young </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116137585996195245/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116137585996195245' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116137585996195245'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116137585996195245'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/shiver-down-every-parents-spine.html' title='A shiver down every parent&apos;s spine'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116126918885946891</id><published>2006-10-19T10:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-19T14:34:46.620-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Tag: You're It! -- Or not.</title><summary type='text'>Check out the story of the Massachusetts school that's gone way overboard in protecting children. Now they can't play "tag" during recess. Tag. Come on. What's next, "Duck, Duck, Goose''?Kids at elementary schools around Attleboro, just south of Boston, were told a few years ago that they couldn't play dodgeball anymore because it was "exclusionary and dangerous." OK, maybe some of the kids don't</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116126918885946891/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116126918885946891' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116126918885946891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116126918885946891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/tag-youre-it-or-not.html' title='Tag: You&apos;re It! -- Or not.'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116118477414247344</id><published>2006-10-18T11:08:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-18T14:04:56.120-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Do 380 people really need a separate government?</title><summary type='text'>Ship Bottom, population 1,418 as of July 2004, is considering either renovating its municipal buildings or building a new one for $3.3 million. That comes to about $2,325 per person. Down the boulevard on Long Beach Island in Harvey Cedars, population 380, there's talk of adding on to the municipal building. At the north end of Long Beach Island, Barnegat Light, population 815, is completing </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116118477414247344/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116118477414247344' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116118477414247344'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116118477414247344'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/do-380-people-really-need-separate.html' title='Do 380 people really need a separate government?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116109582420722178</id><published>2006-10-17T10:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-17T11:30:14.806-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Outrageous water bills in Howell</title><summary type='text'>How high is your water bill? Not as high, I hope, as some of the New Jersey-American Water Co. users in Howell.Signs have been sprouting from lawns there complaining about residential water and sewer bills.  I can't blame 'em ... one guy said his quarterly bill came to $1,800. That's $7,200 a year! That must be especially painful now, as those lush lawns lose the battle of the elements.My monthly</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116109582420722178/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116109582420722178' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116109582420722178'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116109582420722178'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/outrageous-water-bills-in-howell.html' title='Outrageous water bills in Howell'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116109319496872360</id><published>2006-10-17T09:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-17T11:17:26.543-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Driving me crazy</title><summary type='text'>I took my oldest out for his first driving lesson on Sunday. At least he did better than I did. I learned on a stick shift and did nothing but stall out for 15 minutes while my father very patiently (I was the fourth of five kids) said, "Try again." "Try again." "Try again." The whole time, my friend Jane sat on our porch cracking up.My 15-year-old first thought it would be OK to bring a few </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116109319496872360/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116109319496872360' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116109319496872360'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116109319496872360'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/driving-me-crazy.html' title='Driving me crazy'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116076077304289138</id><published>2006-10-13T13:27:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-13T13:58:30.533-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A Gay time on Comedy Central</title><summary type='text'>Finishing up my nightly rounds a little later than usual last night, I had Comedy Central on while I got set up for the morning. On the Colbert Report, 4th District Democratic candidate Carol Gay, who is challenging Rep. Chris Smith, was one of the guests. I hope she was forewarned.I only caught a bit of it, with Colbert suggesting some campaign slogans along the lines of "Go Gay in New Jersey."</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116076077304289138/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116076077304289138' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116076077304289138'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116076077304289138'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/gay-time-on-comedy-central.html' title='A Gay time on Comedy Central'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116068437713190768</id><published>2006-10-12T16:18:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-12T16:27:02.063-04:00</updated><title type='text'>How pricey could plastic be?</title><summary type='text'>So the N.J. Lottery operator with a bid nearly $32 million higher than its competitor got the contract because it is "more convenient." Representatives for the low bidder, Scientific Games, said the state's evaluation committee exaggerated its weaknesses while ignoring the problems (and obviously, the price) of GTech, which bid $106.7 million to Scientific's $75 million. Former state Attorney </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116068437713190768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116068437713190768' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116068437713190768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116068437713190768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/how-pricey-could-plastic-be.html' title='How pricey could plastic be?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116050251952996347</id><published>2006-10-10T13:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-10T14:17:39.490-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Letttuce be wary of our foods</title><summary type='text'>OK, I could deal with the spinach. When a couple hundred people were sickened by the e-coli bacteria traced to spinach, I was OK with that. I'm big on veggies, but I can live without spinach as long as I have all the others.Now health officials are concerned about lettuce. Come on! How's a person supposed to battle the bulge? Are they going to say broccoli's dangerous? How about cauliflower and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116050251952996347/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116050251952996347' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116050251952996347'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116050251952996347'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/letttuce-be-wary-of-our-foods.html' title='Letttuce be wary of our foods'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116041892540556742</id><published>2006-10-09T14:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-09T17:19:19.060-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Trekkies are scary people</title><summary type='text'>The 78-inch model of the Starship Enterprise used in some of the shows in the "Star Trek: The Next Generation" and the "Star Trek Generations" series was expected to bring in $25,000 to $35,000.  Nope. It sold for $576,000. FIVE HUNDRED AND SEVENTY SIX THOUSAND DOLLARS! For that price, it should be big enough to live in. Apparently, Christie's auction house underestimates the devotion of the true</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116041892540556742/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116041892540556742' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116041892540556742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116041892540556742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/trekkies-are-scary-people.html' title='Trekkies are scary people'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-116007402745182033</id><published>2006-10-05T14:34:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-05T14:53:57.896-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Outsource N.J. government to another state</title><summary type='text'>The more I hear about state legislators' efforts to reduce property taxes, the more I think we should just outsource the whole state government to another state, where the legislators get it right. Or at least, where they get it better. That would open it up to 49 other states.One of the latest songs they're tap dancing to is possibly allowing municipalities to establish local sales tax. Of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/116007402745182033/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=116007402745182033' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116007402745182033'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/116007402745182033'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/outsource-nj-government-to-another.html' title='Outsource N.J. government to another state'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115988372269464889</id><published>2006-10-03T09:46:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-03T13:20:32.736-04:00</updated><title type='text'>What a waste</title><summary type='text'>I heard someone on the radio this morning talking about how the Newark school district throws out a lot of unused food and unopened milk cartons every day after the kids have eaten. That's one Abbott waste that sickens me; not because of the money but because of the needless waste. Can't they donate what they don't use to a soup kitchen, or allow children to take the extra food home? All those </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115988372269464889/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115988372269464889' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115988372269464889'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115988372269464889'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/10/what-waste.html' title='What a waste'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115953843512628241</id><published>2006-09-29T09:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-29T10:09:28.543-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Sticks and stones</title><summary type='text'>I have very little patience for political advertisements. Most of them provide no useful information.  Candidates say little about themselves, opting instead for the chance to take a cheap shot at an opponent.But the "Linda Stender is a spender" slogan is a new low, where a whole bunch of people take turn saying that phrase, in the ad approved by Rep. Mike Ferguson, R-N.J. He is trying to keep </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115953843512628241/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115953843512628241' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115953843512628241'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115953843512628241'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/sticks-and-stones.html' title='Sticks and stones'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115920730205032717</id><published>2006-09-25T14:01:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-25T14:15:53.026-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Did "pull" come to shove?</title><summary type='text'>So Sen. Wayne Bryant of Camden County -- whose questionable dealings have been coming to light in various ethics investigations -- wrote to Sen. Richard Codey saying he wants to temporarily step down as Budget Committee chairman. Codey said it was done after "careful consideration and discussion" and Bryant's brief resignation letter referred to his and Codey's "thoughtful discussion during the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115920730205032717/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115920730205032717' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115920730205032717'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115920730205032717'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/did-pull-come-to-shove.html' title='Did &quot;pull&quot; come to shove?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115885386636767210</id><published>2006-09-21T11:50:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-21T14:05:48.236-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Torture Me Elmo -- shopping season's coming.</title><summary type='text'>Our family writer is receiving samples of the season's new toys (no, she doesn't get to keep 'em!) that will have kids begging their parents for and putting stars next to on their Christmas wish list for Santa. There's a new Elmo doll that falls down, rolls over, throws its arm in the air, kicks its feet and rights itself while cracking up. Toy technology has really come far since the original </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115885386636767210/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115885386636767210' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115885386636767210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115885386636767210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/torture-me-elmo-shopping-seasons.html' title='Torture Me Elmo -- shopping season&apos;s coming.'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115868242502931862</id><published>2006-09-19T12:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-19T17:04:38.910-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Where does this sense of entitlement come from?</title><summary type='text'>I'm in awe of those in "public service" who see absolutely no problem in ripping off the public. How do they justify it to themselves? Do they even recognize what they do is wrong? I'm reminded of Gov. Corzine's inaugural speech, when he came down hard on the corruption in New Jersey government, and those with the most ethical lapses got all offended and basically said, ''How dare he?!''Wayne </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115868242502931862/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115868242502931862' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115868242502931862'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115868242502931862'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/where-does-this-sense-of-entitlement.html' title='Where does this sense of entitlement come from?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115860227483501844</id><published>2006-09-18T13:57:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-18T15:11:42.366-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My chance to dance (and for my kids to get a laugh)</title><summary type='text'>I just bought a pair of tap shoes on eBay -- much to the horror of my friend Dianne, who would never wear anything used. They're on their way from Washington State. Good thing. Tapping in sneakers is just downright impossible, I found out last week.I'm taking a tap-dancing class. I've never had a tap shoe on in my life. I did a year of ballet when I was in second grade, but it was One and Done. I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115860227483501844/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115860227483501844' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115860227483501844'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115860227483501844'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/my-chance-to-dance-and-for-my-kids-to.html' title='My chance to dance (and for my kids to get a laugh)'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115834561254195357</id><published>2006-09-15T14:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-15T15:22:20.146-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Lynch, et al</title><summary type='text'>I'm glad to hear that another politician is facing the music for dancing to an unethical tune. This time it's the powerful Democratic party leader John Lynch Jr., the former state Senate president from New Brunswick, who pleaded guilty to corruption and tax evasion charges today.I find no joy in hearing of one of our top state leaders facing jail time for being corrupt. But I know there's rampant</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115834561254195357/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115834561254195357' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115834561254195357'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115834561254195357'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/lynch-et-al.html' title='Lynch, et al'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115815882384777272</id><published>2006-09-13T10:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-13T13:06:33.496-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Rebate debate</title><summary type='text'>On the radio on my way in to work, I heard something about a New Jersey legislator, didn't catch which one, who wants to end the practice of companies offering rebates on items where you have to fill out forms, send in receipts, clip bar codes off boxes, jump through hoops and mail it out, then wait eight weeks for your five bucks. This legislator says the rebates should be given at the time of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115815882384777272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115815882384777272' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115815882384777272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115815882384777272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/rebate-debate.html' title='Rebate debate'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115774115031855672</id><published>2006-09-08T14:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-08T15:43:48.186-04:00</updated><title type='text'>9/11 made normalcy disapppear for a time</title><summary type='text'>I'm too young to remember the assassinations of John F. Kennedy, Robert F. Kennedy or Martin Luther King Jr., and I have only vague memories of the first man on the moon. But I can remember so much about 9/11, so many details about that surreal day.The first recollection is of my then 2-year-old daughter running into the kitchen saying, "Mommy, T.B., T.B." ... seems our TV, hooked up to an </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115774115031855672/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115774115031855672' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115774115031855672'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115774115031855672'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/911-made-normalcy-disapppear-for-time.html' title='9/11 made normalcy disapppear for a time'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115757452739905868</id><published>2006-09-06T16:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-06T18:40:29.200-04:00</updated><title type='text'>It's back to school time: So what's on TV?</title><summary type='text'>The McDowell household returned to school and work this week, mostly smooth, except for the surprisingly early bus that left a few dozen high school kids stranded this morning (I took three of them for the half-hour trek to school - seems only the freshmen were notified the new schedule has the bus coming 15 MINUTES EARLIER. AAAAUUUUGGGGHHHHH!Oh well, it just means I get started 15 minutes </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115757452739905868/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115757452739905868' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115757452739905868'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115757452739905868'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/its-back-to-school-time-so-whats-on-tv.html' title='It&apos;s back to school time: So what&apos;s on TV?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115746888368792885</id><published>2006-09-05T10:54:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-05T11:38:55.240-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Out of sorts</title><summary type='text'>Well, in case you missed me, I'm back after a two-week vacation. Problem is, I'm scratching my head to remember all my various passwords and the Web sites I usually use on a daily basis. By Wednesday or Thursday I expect I'll be back in the swing of things. But even after this short time off, things seem so foreign, things that will be habit in only a few days are requiring extra thought right </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115746888368792885/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115746888368792885' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115746888368792885'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115746888368792885'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/09/out-of-sorts.html' title='Out of sorts'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115591749626147983</id><published>2006-08-18T11:53:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-18T12:36:24.463-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Fishermen need an "Aunt Eller"</title><summary type='text'>The Press has been covering the upcoming vote on reauthorizing the Magnuson Stevens Act, which governs fisheries nationally. While the fluke population has doubled in the last six years, the environmental lobby wants to see it tripled in a few more years, which means far fewer fish could be caught by both recreational and commercial fishermen.I grew up fluke fishing off the Jersey Coast. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115591749626147983/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115591749626147983' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115591749626147983'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115591749626147983'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/fishermen-need-aunt-eller.html' title='Fishermen need an &quot;Aunt Eller&quot;'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115565773559137564</id><published>2006-08-15T11:39:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-15T13:37:46.166-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Is Death by Chocolate a capital offense?</title><summary type='text'>Executives heading the federally funded Legal Services Corp. saw fit to treat themselves to trips across the country to hold their meetings -- ranging from $20,145 to $55,125 in bills to put up the 11-member board at hotels. They didn't want to "feel confined" by meeting at their Washington, D.C., headquarters -- with its multiple conference rooms and kitchen and pantry areas -- for two entire </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115565773559137564/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115565773559137564' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115565773559137564'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115565773559137564'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/is-death-by-chocolate-capital-offense.html' title='Is Death by Chocolate a capital offense?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115558402852346043</id><published>2006-08-14T15:33:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-15T13:29:20.076-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Driving the idea of safety home</title><summary type='text'>My sister and I have teens about the same age, who are about a year away from having driver's permits. I've turned into "The Lecturer." ... Scares the heck out of me, that these kids will be driving so soon! But we were just talking about kids, cars and how we now understand why our Mom and Dad said, "No." Truth be told, they were often right to do so.So I've become "The Lecturer." I'm about to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115558402852346043/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115558402852346043' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115558402852346043'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115558402852346043'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/driving-idea-of-safety-home.html' title='Driving the idea of safety home'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115522381195497275</id><published>2006-08-10T11:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-10T14:01:18.316-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Stop looking and drive!</title><summary type='text'>We've been talking in the office about the handling of accident/construction/gridlock problems on our Parkway and Turnpike. Everybody's been stuck behind an accident at one time or another, and it's a relief when the authorities finally get the lanes moving again.One thing that really irks me is when you get stuck in traffic, then find out it's because of the idiots in front of you who had to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115522381195497275/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115522381195497275' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115522381195497275'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115522381195497275'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/stop-looking-and-drive.html' title='Stop looking and drive!'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115505301980647208</id><published>2006-08-08T11:51:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-08T13:11:47.316-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Loosening the old apron strings</title><summary type='text'>OK, we let our 15-year-old go to the Warped Tour this weekend. Not his first concert, but the first one where I wasn't close by. Knowing that a friend of mine would be there and that some of his own friends would catch up with him, I dropped him off, alone, after a friend of his who he was planning to go with backed out at the last minute. Freaked me out.Seeing the amount of security there and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115505301980647208/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115505301980647208' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115505301980647208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115505301980647208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/loosening-old-apron-strings.html' title='Loosening the old apron strings'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115498435092122072</id><published>2006-08-07T16:58:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-07T18:58:06.903-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Don't let crime pay at all</title><summary type='text'>Kudos to Superior Court Judge James Citta for making sure crime doesn't pay ... $600,000-plus in this case. In Ocean County last week, Citta held off sentencing an admitted insurance scammer when he delayed sentencing a 55-year-old Dover Township woman until he finds out where the money went.Citta was scheduled last week to pass sentence according to the plea bargain between the state attorney </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115498435092122072/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115498435092122072' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115498435092122072'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115498435092122072'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/dont-let-crime-pay-at-all.html' title='Don&apos;t let crime pay at all'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115453977543804842</id><published>2006-08-02T13:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-02T13:34:47.106-04:00</updated><title type='text'>So clarify exactly what the mistake was ...</title><summary type='text'>Pleading for leniency in his sentencing for taking a $1,000 bribe, former Monmouth County Deputy Fire Marshal Patsy Townsend said, "In 37 years, I made one big mistake. I would like to take the opportunity to say I am truly sorry to my family, my friends, my colleagues and the public for the embarrassment I have brought on them." His lawyer said he was "part of the fabric of the community" for </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115453977543804842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115453977543804842' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115453977543804842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115453977543804842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/so-clarify-exactly-what-mistake-was.html' title='So clarify exactly what the mistake was ...'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115444516145588815</id><published>2006-08-01T10:57:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-01T11:55:37.283-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hoping cops net the bird killers</title><summary type='text'>OK, I'm not a big fan of seagulls. Even in the movie "Finding Nemo," another bird refers to them as "rats with wings." I don't have anything against them. But I  have been annoyed one too many times by their boldness when I've had lunch on the beach or tried to have a bagel on the boardwalk. And try jogging or walking when they're overhead ... it's a little nerve-wracking, worrying if one will </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115444516145588815/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115444516145588815' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115444516145588815'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115444516145588815'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/08/hoping-cops-net-bird-killers.html' title='Hoping cops net the bird killers'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115436849988649211</id><published>2006-07-31T13:25:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-31T15:51:01.856-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Cigar? Cigarette? Wad of cash?</title><summary type='text'>So how does a truck dealer pass a bribe to an elected official? Seems the preferred method locally is to stuff the cash into a cigarette pack or cigar tube and pass it along at an area restaurant, as shown in our story Saturday about the 19-count indictment against the owners of a Howell truck dealership. They were charged last week with bribing officials in Monmouth and Ocean counties over eight</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115436849988649211/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115436849988649211' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115436849988649211'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115436849988649211'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/cigar-cigarette-wad-of-cash.html' title='Cigar? Cigarette? Wad of cash?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115411248341406731</id><published>2006-07-28T14:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-28T15:26:23.400-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Talk about a leap of faith!</title><summary type='text'>I recall the disappointment I felt a few times when some of my favorite radio stations changed their formats. One area rock station's conversion into easy listening was a heart-breaker years ago. I had to reprogram my car radio fast!Imagine the reaction of the folks in Kingsburg, Calif., who listened to KFYE-FM. Last week, it changed from playing Christian music, sermons and Bible stories to its </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115411248341406731/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115411248341406731' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115411248341406731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115411248341406731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/talk-about-leap-of-faith.html' title='Talk about a leap of faith!'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115393665293704252</id><published>2006-07-26T13:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-26T17:40:47.663-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Mom and Dad allowed a keg?</title><summary type='text'>I was floored when I saw the top headline in Saturday's Local News section, "Police stop teen's kegger; family arrested." Seems the Mom and Dad allowed their 18-year-old daughter to have a keg at a "mock wedding" (what the heck is that?) she was hosting. The Mom said "everything was going fine until about 12:30 (a.m.) when people who were uninvited started showing up."Everything was NOT going </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115393665293704252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115393665293704252' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115393665293704252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115393665293704252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/mom-and-dad-allowed-keg.html' title='Mom and Dad allowed a keg?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115351553146509883</id><published>2006-07-21T16:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-21T17:04:41.956-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Waste, waste, whoopee!</title><summary type='text'>The truckloads of money spent with little or no oversight at the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey boggles the mind. It's as if a whole bunch of blank checkbooks were tossed about in the offices with an invitation to "Shop till ya drop!"It stuns me that there are so many who are so willing to be so dirty with so much of our money. Stories of state money used to throw holiday </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115351553146509883/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115351553146509883' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115351553146509883'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115351553146509883'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/waste-waste-whoopee.html' title='Waste, waste, whoopee!'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115342489508861822</id><published>2006-07-20T15:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-20T18:36:57.856-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Big business in barf?</title><summary type='text'>US Airways Group Inc. - among the first airline companies to put ads on seat-tray tables - plans to sell ads on barf bags.EEEEEEEEEYEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!"We've always been on the cutting edge for this kind of marketing," said a spokesman. A marketing professor suggested motion sickness medicine or Pepto-Bismol might make sense.But really ... when you're about to hurl, are you going to stop and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115342489508861822/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115342489508861822' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115342489508861822'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115342489508861822'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/big-business-in-barf.html' title='Big business in barf?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115331769467472874</id><published>2006-07-19T09:53:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-19T14:41:14.086-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Surprise! Farber ponies up for her own attorney</title><summary type='text'>So Attorney General Zulima Farber is paying her own attorney fees in the probe into whether she helped her boyfriend beat a couple of traffic tickets. The sad thing is, why is that even a question? Of course she should pay for her own attorney fees. But this is New Jersey, and Farber's already shown by her actions and her dreadful driving history that she believes she deserves special treatment. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115331769467472874/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115331769467472874' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115331769467472874'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115331769467472874'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/surprise-farber-ponies-up-for-her-own.html' title='Surprise! Farber ponies up for her own attorney'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115290463379045979</id><published>2006-07-14T15:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-19T14:39:38.463-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Death by Coca-Cola?</title><summary type='text'>Another crazy lawsuit: A St. Louis weight-loss instructor is suing the Coca-Cola Co. over its "My Coke Rewards" campaign where customers earn points by buying Coca-Cola products. This lawsuit charges that it might encourage kids to drink so much of the sugary soft drink they could die. Puh-leeze! She said she filed the lawsuit out of moral obligation, that kids would have to drink hundreds of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115290463379045979/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115290463379045979' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115290463379045979'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115290463379045979'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/death-by-coca-cola.html' title='Death by Coca-Cola?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115282864442628939</id><published>2006-07-13T17:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-13T18:18:08.336-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Is MVC compromising safety?</title><summary type='text'>So the Motor Vehicle Commission is proposing to change the rules, to allow some cars to pass inspection even if they have minor infractions, such as a broken wiper blade or a wimpy horn, with a warning to get the problem fixed or face a ticket.I've had two cases, one recently, when a co-worker told me I had a burned-out brake light days before I went to inspection, so I was able to fix it before </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115282864442628939/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115282864442628939' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115282864442628939'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115282864442628939'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/is-mvc-compromising-safety.html' title='Is MVC compromising safety?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115273099349035245</id><published>2006-07-12T14:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-12T15:55:45.993-04:00</updated><title type='text'>What will they come up with next to tax?</title><summary type='text'>I remember thinking once that former Gov. McGreevey must have watched out of the car window while he was being driven around, trying to think up new things to tax. Remember the $1.50 fee on each tire on a new car (including, I believe, the donut)? How on earth did he come up with that idea? What other ridiculous taxes could he add, I cautiously wondered?Looks like Corzine and crew do the same </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115273099349035245/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115273099349035245' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115273099349035245'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115273099349035245'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/what-will-they-come-up-with-next-to.html' title='What will they come up with next to tax?'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115255297499559926</id><published>2006-07-10T13:12:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-10T14:11:39.333-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Slow down, and try to get along a little better</title><summary type='text'>A report released last week by AAA Mid-Atlantic shows we've got increasing levels of anger when we're behind the wheel. That bothers me big time. I've seen too many people lost to senseless, preventable accidents.I've also seen the scary face of road rage, in big and little ways. People who bang down hard on the horn and scream out insults for something as silly as the person in front of them </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115255297499559926/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115255297499559926' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115255297499559926'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115255297499559926'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/slow-down-and-try-to-get-along-little.html' title='Slow down, and try to get along a little better'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22412357.post-115229155138185301</id><published>2006-07-07T12:56:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-07T14:54:06.286-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Trying some optimism on for size</title><summary type='text'>Now that the budget mess looks like it's over with, I'm wondering what's going to happen next. Where will Gov. Corzine go from here? Will he attack the ingrained problems of New Jersey government? Will he push through the reforms we need? He sold himself as a successful businessman who could pull our state out of its rut with his acumen. Will he have the guts to demand that all the no-show, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/feeds/115229155138185301/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22412357&amp;postID=115229155138185301' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115229155138185301'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22412357/posts/default/115229155138185301'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://claremcdowell.blogspot.com/2006/07/trying-some-optimism-on-for-size.html' title='Trying some optimism on for size'/><author><name>Clare McDowell</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05984106426764051634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://www.jerseyshoremoms.com/graphics/images/mugs/mug_cmcdowell.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry></feed>
